The Bible teaches us that the things that come out of our mouth are a reflection of what is happening inside of us. We might think the things that we say don’t really matter, but if we’re honest, they point to what is going on inside.
So we thought it might be a good idea to focus on a few positive four letter words, words that—if they get inside of us—could change the way we react and relate to each other, even the way we see our lives.
The world is full of bad news: floods, bombings, side effects from drugs, shootings, North Korea is testing missiles again, the hills are on fire, it just goes on and on. The number of bad things happening seems to be endless.
It’s pretty easy for all of this bad news to turn into FEAR. If we allow it, fear will plague us; it will pursue us relentlessly.
What things are you most afraid of? Losing your job? Your spouse leaving you? Being mugged in a rough neighborhood? What impact have these fears had on your life?
Fear can be crippling and can even ruin our lives, which is why Jesus wants to replace your fear with another four letter word: CALM.
Of all the commands Jesus gave during his ministry, the one that his biographers recorded him as saying more often than any other—21 times—is some variation of, “Do not be afraid.”
Jesus recognizes our fears, but he also calls us to trust in the faithfulness of God in every season.
Have you ever felt like you’ve been let down by God? What happened, and do you still feel that way?
Has there ever been a time when you’ve taken a risk because you thought it was what God wanted? If so, what was the result?
What areas of your life have you learned to trust God with? What has been the result of that trust?
Life is so Short
Have volunteers read James 4:14, Psalm 90:12, and Ecclesiastes 12:1-5.
Life happens in the blink of an eye. When we’re young it seems so long, but the older we get the quicker life seems to pass. Most of us spend our youth wishing we were grown up and our adulthood wishing we were younger… or feeling like we’re younger than we actually are.
And of course, when we’re single we want to be married. When we’re married we want to have kids. When we have kids we want the kids to be grown and out of the house. When the kids are grown and out of the house we long for the days when they were younger. If we never had kids or never got married, then we wish we had… and so many who did get married wish they hadn’t.
Why do you think people so often spend their lives wishing they were in a different life stage?
God is so Faithful
Have a volunteer read Hebrews 13:8.
In the midst of all of the bad headlines, and in the midst of every stage of our lives, God is faithful. He is rock-solid, never changing.
Some of you may be raising small children, in the middle of all of the chaos, driving kids from one thing to the next. In the middle of all of that, God is with you. He is faithful.
Maybe you wished that were you, but you keep experiencing the heartbreak of infertility or you haven’t met the right person yet. And in the midst of that, God is with you.
Whatever season of life you’re in, from childhood to young adulthood, from mid-life to the twilight years, God is with you. Whatever you’re going through, whatever your next challenge is, God is with you. You are loved and accepted just like you are.
How can you make the most of your current season of life?
What are some of the ways God has shown Himself faithful in your life?
Where do you need to most rely on God during this season?
Have volunteers read Philippians 4:6-7 and Isaiah 26:3-4.
How can you develop a greater sense of peace?